Author: baby knows that education is not good to become anxious

For children’s education, there must be punishment, even severe punishment, especially in the face of the only child.

Today, what I want to share with you is Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University at the “Third Realm New Oriental Family Education Summit Forum”.

In the face of the emphasis on happiness education, the Chinese lecture on Professor Qian Wenzhong, which has been educated by corporal punishment, has important inspiration significance.

For the education of a child, there must be punishment, or even severe punishment, especially the generation of only children.

Many so -called quality education and happy learning are completely misleading slogans. I hope these can alert some parents and teachers.

The following is the full text of Professor Qian:

Dear principals and teachers:

I am very happy to come to this forum.Originally, my speech was prescribed by President Yu Minhong, but after listening to the speech of the President of the Fourth Middle School and the principal of the Zhengzhou Foreign Language School, I wanted to make a temporary change.

I plan to talk about my views on education as a student, a parent, and a teacher.

01

Chinese education is facing

Unprecedented issues

Today, all our views on Chinese education may originate from a mistake. We have not seriously thought about what education is.

We are constantly concession, find reasons for ourselves, and get rid of the children.I want to say that education is not like this, nor should it be like this.

China is facing many problems that have never been faced in the history of human beings, such as the only child.

The only child has never been a “sub -species” that has never been on the earth.

In human history, there are never many people who have no brothers and sisters in such a short period of time.

Don’t forget that all our educational concepts, education methods, and education methods are for children with siblings.

Today, our educators are desperately reflecting on it, but don’t forget that the subject of the object of education is already the “subspecies” that have never appeared in human history.

We have no way, we don’t know how to educate these children.Don’t think that they are the same as us, they are different from us, or even completely different.

We are talking about happy education today, and our childhood is very happy.But is our childhood happy?At least I am not happy at all.Memories are generally illusory and happy.

We are here, as long as we have been in college, who is not a test all the way?When we were young, we also had a lot of homework. When we were young, we couldn’t eat enough meals. Sometimes we were stabbed twice and scolded by the teacher.

Why is education happy?I really can’t figure it out. How can education must be happy?I’m afraid I am stunned by foreign education!

There must be painful components in education, which is self -evident.Why do we want to make a concession for the descendants who are destined to take over, I don’t think of it.

02

Can education have no punishment?

Now, we are mostly encouraged by our children’s education. There is nothing wrong.

So, what about punishment?Can education have no punishment?Can you complete education alone with encouragement?I do not believe.

Nowadays, children can’t scold, can’t, or criticize them, and can’t accept a setback!

When I was a kid, my teacher punished me, but our feelings have been good today.Now blindly praise children, I am afraid it depends on what kind of parents are.

What about punishment?I am studying in Europe, and we often talk about educating European education.Okay, let’s take a look at the rules of good schools in the UK.

The British House passed a regulation that “allows teachers to take the necessary means including physical contact, including physical contact, forcing students who do not comply with discipline to comply with discipline.”

To put it plainly, you can be appropriate.Everyone says that Singapore’s education is good. Isn’t there a ride on the wall behind Singapore’s primary and secondary school classrooms?

It is said that the child’s performance is not good. He beats three times according to regulations. He only might be a fight, and he must not be allowed to be executed when the two teachers are present.

But if the past education was wrong, how did President Yu Minhong train it?How did Xu Xiaoping and Wang Qiang cultivate?

Didn’t we teach in the past?Are we spitting everywhere, or are we hooligans?We didn’t do anything, it’s good.

I feel that education cannot be made again blindly, and we must be responsible for children.

Don’t cater to some plausible sayings in the society, what quality education, what happy education, and test -oriented education.Trial is the most basic quality.

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Is the exam -oriented system really unfair?

Human society has no absolute fairness!China is unfair, the United States is equally unfair!It can be said that the only relative fair line is now the college entrance examination.

If you are enrolled according to the so -called quality, how much can Chinese civilians enter Peking University and Tsinghua?

A child does not even compete for fair competition. He also said that the quality is very high. Who believes? So, do not cater to some so -called experts in the society.

I now advocate restoring the national unified college entrance examination, and it is a naked test, don’t add points.Wang Qiang is the second place in the Inner Mongolia college entrance examination. I am the second place in Shanghai of the college entrance examination that year.

If the college entrance examination system cannot be changed, our education cannot be changed. The college entrance examination is the command stick!

The reason why the college entrance examination system cannot be changed is because we cannot find a system that is not bad than the college entrance examination system.The college entrance examination system is not the best system, but it is the least bad system.

The problem is that we must be clear in our hearts.Someone asked me:

“Teacher Qian, you talk about Chinese studies on TV in recent years,” Three Characters “and” Disciples Rules “. Where do you think the biggest difficulty of promoting the” Three Characters “and” Disciples Rules “?”

My general statement is to hope that the relevant departments will vigorously promote and enter the school.

In fact, this is not the biggest difficulty. The biggest difficulty is:

If you cultivate children in accordance with the “Three -character Classic” and “Disciples Rules” and follow the standards of prestigious schools attending the forum today, then 90%of these children will suffer.

You put children who are loyal, trustworthy, filial, and rules like “Disciples Rules” and see them in the society. It is likely to suffer!

This shows that there are big problems in our society.Who can deny it? The most fundamental reason we want to talk about the traditional excellent culture lies in this.

I am also teaching books myself, and I have contact with students. I want to tell everyone that we must have an extreme sense of worry about education in China.I agree that it is really strict for children.

After all, children are not adults. Children must also discipline and punish them. He must let him know that education is not just happy. Learning is not just happy!

If a person can feel happy in learning, it is likely to become a master -level figure!The vast majority will not.

The vast majority of children have to learn, for some purpose or to know that learning to learn the importance of their lives.

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The current child, the cost of making mistakes is too low

We have to tell our children that we have made mistakes to pay.

If the atmosphere of parents’ concessions to children in the whole society, the children in the future are terrible. Our future is terrible. The children educated in this way cannot take over the burden of China’s future development.

Now, the child is further, the society is one step; the child is further, the teacher gives one step; the child goes one step, the parent gives one step.Parents are distressed by their children, and teachers are also distressed by their children. They are the only children.

How to do such education?What’s more, the current education is facing huge conflicts, and it is impossible to think according to the general educational theoretical thinking.

My father had suffered a good education, but he could not see his son educating his grandson.

Once, I taught my child, my father was a little unhappy next to him.

My son said, “Dad, why do you talk to me in this tone?”

I said, “Because you are wrong.”

He said, “You can’t talk to me in such a tone if you are wrong.”

I said, “Haven’t read the” Three Characters “?”

He said, “Don’t you just want to say‘ do n’t teach, father ’s time’? ”

I said yes.”

He said, “Did you not talk about the” Disciples “two days ago?” Disciples “says ‘Shou Xiaoyi, I believe in the second letter’, you will not let your dad happy, why do I make my dad happy?”” “

This incident shows that our traditional education has collapsed today, and we are facing a fundamental conflict.

As a parent, I hope that if my son’s teacher watched him, he was not a manifestation, he took him twice, and punished the station for a while. This should be.The Ministry of Education should set such rules to punish students.

We now say that encouraging children’s self -confidence, praising him, and encouraging him to be confident. This is right, but cannot be excessive.Children under such education will come to society, and his contrast is enough to destroy him.

We should tell our children that this society is cruel and unfair. We must prepare a lot of grievances, have been grievances, and have been exercised early.

If the principal and teacher’s punishment really made the wrong child, and even a few times, I would like to thank the teacher.

I believe that most teachers have great love.I hope that the teacher holds carrots in one hand and has to hold a big stick in one hand.

Don’t simply say that happy education, quality education, happy learning, and successful education have all succeeded?I think it ’s good to educate children to be a happy ordinary person!

05

Education, you can’t make concessions blindly

I think education is the most authentic thing. Teachers should not figure out the minds of parents and children, and keep giving up children and concessions to parents.

It doesn’t matter if your child is not taking a brand -name university or not. I just hope that he is physiological and mental health, and he will live a lifetime.

What’s more, no one knows how many humans have.Hawking said that there are still 200 years. If this is really the case, I will tell my grandson not to have children.Is this a joke?

We need to let our children try to be physiological and mental health as much as possible, and we have let him out of the future options because we are not responsible for our children.

Unlike when we were young, life was difficult, the society was underdeveloped, and the economy was underdeveloped, but our parents could still be responsible for us.

我觉得我现在非常羡慕我父母，他们敢骂孩子、揍孩子，但是我们依然爱他们。

Today’s children can’t beat or scold, even if they are a look, maybe they can kill their elders tomorrow.

The teacher dare not criticize the students, and the students cannot be injured at school. The teacher is afraid that the parents are endless and entangled.

When I talked about “Disciples Regulations”, when I talked about “Shouxiao”, I asked my assistant to search for the negative example of “Filial Filial Pick, Killing Father” within a year, and then printed it to prepare for the negative example.

After a while, the assistant told me: “The printing paper is gone!”

We do not have some control, suppression, and constraints on our children, and to give them concessions in the name of love. Such education is wrong.

Perhaps this idea is very abrupt, and I should find a way to “how to make children learn more successfully”, but I “do not believe”.

So I chose to report my true thoughts with the principals and teachers.If we don’t make some illusory things, we all have to finish!

Education, especially basic education, may not be fully developed with the development of society.

This is a big problem. We simply believe that education should follow social development.

To some extent, education should be “singing” with society.Is it society “education” education, or is education in the “education” society?

I think it should be education in the “education” society.Now it is the social “education” education, so the ontology of education does not exist, and the most basic value concept of education does not exist.

Our nation originally gave such a high status and value to education, and today we have been completely disrupted.

The last line of defense in our society is education.We should not make concessions easily, and we should not make concessions to our children easily, and do not make concessions to parents easily.

Our society must give the principals and teachers greater rights, higher honors, and better treatment, but they should also give them greater responsibility.

This is my sincerity. There is something wrong. Please ask the principals first as a student, secondly treat me as a parent, and finally treat me as a junior teacher to give criticism and education.

I didn’t have a false words just now, all of which were true.Of course, Mr. Ji Xianlin taught me “I don’t speak all the words, and the truth is not to say.”

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